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Time finds me
caught up
in
the busy thoughts
of who I am not...




all to the 
loss 
of who and Whose
I am.




"How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God!  And that is what we are!"  
I John 3:1 (NIV)



I took these pictures at our local daffodil/tulip farm a fews weeks ago.  Such a fun place to visit!. A great place to enjoy God's creation and remind me of the beauty He finds in us - His children.


My mom doing her best Vanna White impression.


Linking up today with Kristin from 152 Insights to My Soul for Three Word Wednesday and Jennifer for #TellHisStory.    




They were moving and we had come to help pack the last of their belongings - a feeble attempt at saying good-bye to a family who had been such a huge part of our lives for so many years.  

The men went to work on the heavy stuff while she and I went to work in the kitchen, the heart of the home, and my heart was beating quick as I tried to stuff deep emotions down from the surface.  They were leaving our community, one in which their impact was great spiritually.  They were going where God was calling.  But the leaving was hard.  Hard for them; hard for us.  

So we opened cupboards.  

Among the pots and pans, bags of tea and cans of soup, we found a forgotten package past its expiration date, some crystals of sugar from a hurried return of the container to its space.  Bits and pieces of lives lived to the full.  

We talked as we sorted and even laughed a bit as we boxed it up.  I wondered how I would feel having someone, even a close friend, go through my cupboards - to possibly find some stray pasta that had escaped its container or some crumbs of crackers that left the tin.  What would they think of my housekeeping skills? What would they think of me personally?    

We, as women (sorry guys who might be reading...), consider men the prideful species but us women have our issues as well.  It's a vulnerable thing letting someone in to the deep parts of your cupboard.  It's even more vulnerable when you let them in to the deep parts of your heart.  

But the deep is where the true connections are made, lasting  bonds are formed and hearts forever joined.  It was a hard day letting go but also a good day of growing a step closer as I saw just a wee bit more of this precious woman's heart.  

Now moved for a couple years, I get updates from her on Facebook and some personal messaging.   The family is doing well.  They are just hours away and connections here will undoubtedly bring them back for visits.  I hope so.  We had a special day out and lunch together the day or so before the moving van actually pulled away.  We talked and shared like we never really had before.  I regretted that we had not done it sooner.  I regret it still.  We started out looking inside cupboards, then peeked inside hearts where God's love drew us closer together and His grace sustains us still.



Linking up today with Jennifer for #TellHisStory and Kristin for Three Word Wednesday along with Barbie from The Weekend Brew.
  

This is my commandment:
Love each other 
in the same way I have loved you.


Love each other with genuine affection,
and take delight 
in honoring each other.


Two are better than one.



Thank you Lord for the one you gave me

who loves me

who is willing to get wet with me

to swim along side

in the calm waters

and in the rough.



(John 15:12, Romans 12:10, Ecc. 4:9 NLT)


Linking up today with: 

Kristin for Three Word Wednesday
Jennifer for #Tell His Story
Stephanie with the Enchanting Rose link-up.  
Copyright: <a href='http://www.123rf.com/profile_funlovingvolvo'> / 123RF Stock Photo</a> (for picture collage of flowers)



The sunshine warm upon my shoulders, I gaze out at the yard to survey its ever-changing pallet.  I see the most brilliant yellow of the mini daffodils near the office window, the purest white of the snowdrops beneath the maple tree, a warm and glowing pink of a primrose peeking among the yet to be scraped up winter leaves and the wonderful green of the rhubarb springing to life once again.  Color.  Alive and beautiful color.

But the color that thrilled me this morning was an amazing shade of brown against the white sheets in the bed as I rose from them.  My skin.  

There is a lot of talk in the news these days about color - skin color in particular.  It is conversation that needs to happen and conversation that is far from over.  There is talk of judgment because of color and benefit because of color and we know that neither are right. There are uneasy answers given to hard questions and hearts being searched for truths.  

Through it all I hear a recurring word: colorblind.  I did a bit of reading and one particular description referred to colorblindness as "a color vision deficiency".  The phrase immediately pricked at my heart.  You see, I spent a long time thinking I was/wanted be colorblind, trying to treat each person I came in contact with as equals by ignoring their skin.  On the surface it sounds good but I have found that theory to be flawed.  A deficiency even.  

Webster's dictionary defines deficiency as this:  "a lack of something that is needed : the state of not having enough of something necessary"  "a problem in the way something is made or formed".  Deficient.  

We (that means me and you and all mankind) were created (formed) in God's very image, breathed into life by him and when he was done, "God saw all that he had made, and it was very good."  

VERY GOOD.


So no, I don't want to be colorblind.  I want to see diversity of skin as beautiful and necessary.  I want to see every God-created, God-breathed individual as the unique person they are - including the beautiful skin wrapping they arrived in.  I want to celebrate the exotic brown of my half Indonesian cousins, the beautiful tan of my half Native American niece, the gorgeous freckled cream of my friend's daughters, the stunning Ethiopian black of a family friend.  The red hair, the black hair, the brown, the blonde, the ash.  The curly, the straight, the wavy.  The green eyes, the blue eyes, the brown eyes.  The short, the medium, the tall, the very tall and the very small.  All shapes, all sizes, all makes, all models.  All equally yet uniquely created.  All beautifully created with promise and purpose inside.  None deficient.      

Each are precious in His sight.

 You are precious in His sight.

Loving the skin we are in, loving the skin other's are in might not change the race dialogue - but it's a start.  Color.  Alive and beautiful color.  Will you celebrate with me today?


     
Linking up with Kristin for Three Word Wednesday and Jennifer for #TellHisStory and Barbie  at the Weekend Brew.  

Update:  This post is currently featured on Simply Fresh Dinners  Tuesday Tidbits.  
    
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